People (can) change; Whose point of view? Relationship

Remember, people can change; maybe it is more correct to say that people change. 5 years ago we were not the same as we are now. We could change to be better or to be worse.

If you saw his/her weaknesses 5 years ago, you might not see them again now, or you might see them but just a little bit… since s/he’s working on it. Or you might see him/her still the same…

Or is it your point of view that needs to be fixed, so that you can see him/her differently (that in fact s/he has changed to be better)…?

We have to remember that people can change. How much you know about him/her now, compared to 5 years ago, depends on your relationship…

Well, the “5 years ago” could actually be “1 year ago”, “3 months ago”, and so on… depending on the person…

A good relationship should be able to work together to overcome the weaknesses of each, or to remind each to work on him/herself.

Whatever is left should be accepted… or dumped. Compromising each other is important in a relationship.

Being a LOVEABLE person is a must! Have a love that focuses not on ourselves, but on our couples.

Another thing, Communication is the KEY! Think outside the box…

Change to the better is a change as a result of working on ourselves through everyday life.  Show that you’re not the same; you are a better person, a new person, a grown up person…

~ by alwyn on January 31, 2009.