My Comments about Being Single or Married

One day I read my friend’s quotation on a website… It says:

“Being single isn’t a bad thing. It’s a tough choice, but isn’t wrong”

My close friend asked me to comment it on the website… so here’ my comment:

“Being single or married, neither is a bad thing and neither is wrong. There is absolutely NoThInG wrong with being single… It is a choice, but it should not be a tough one. There are some limitations by both being single or married. But it does NoT mean we will suffer FoReVeR by being single or married… It depends on how we LiVe our life and how we ThInK about our life. We can make our life better both by being single & married; we can live a HaPpY LiFe by being single or married.”

“Yes, we can live a HaPpY or MiSeRaBlE life as a single or a married couple. In fact, we’ll have more responsibilities if we’re married, and thus we’ll have more DiFfIcUlTiEs than just being a single man…”

“Since we know that not everybody will end up being married, we should not worry too much… We can try to the best of our abilities, but whatever we end up, as a single or married, it is absolutely OK… =)”

“I think we’ve seen miserable singles and married couples in our life… but we would like to be the HaPpY singles or married couples in the end… =) Being single or married does not mean we will be happy… It can only happen if we CHoOsE to be happy and WoRK on it…”

It’s kinda long, but I think I gave my wise words (uheauheauheauhea =P ). Our surroundings tell us that being single is a bad thing and wrong, and is unhappy… But these are all wrong statements!

Instead of having a self-pity just because we are singles, we should see this kind of thing from a different angle; outside the Box… It is us who decides whether we are happy or unhappy, not because of being single or married, but because of our choice. This is not a tough choice, but it might be tough when we work on it…

~ by alwyn on January 28, 2009.